Meeting up with my old friend after lockdown

2021.10.25 20:28 PlsEndMyAutism Meeting up with my old friend after lockdown

One of my friend when i were in elementary in invited me to his birthday which is tommorow, i agreed since he were my friend
me being a shy little shit that i was with terrible social skills feels alittle bit conflicted, i'm afraid that this is going to be way more awkward than it was supposed to be, it's been 2 years since we seen each other, not to mention my social skill got a nerf since the pandemic began
the spicy part of this, is that his gf is best friend with the girl i had a crush on for like 3 yrs, he might bring it up and i'm not really comfortable with that
what plans or tactics that can prevent this meet up from being an awkward 3 hrs conversation??
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2021.10.25 20:28 cucumberbalance My boyfriend called my mother stupid for her food allergy.

My mother never wanted kids, isn't good with kids, but didn't believe in termination or putting her children in foster care. She was abusive, controlling and neglectful growing up. So we really don't have much of a relationship now that I'm an adult.
I(24ftm) made sure to point this out to my boyfriend (23m) when we started dating.
Me and my boyfriend were hanging out at my place when the topic of 18th birthdays got brought up. When I was asked about my 18th I explained that honestly it was a horrible memory.
I'm only telling the story because context is important.
In a very uncharacteristic manner my mother who had not celebrated my brithday in over 10 years decided to take the family to dinner for my birthday.
We ended up at a hibachi and teppanyaki restaurant.
My mother and older brother have seafood allergies so all seafood and shellfish had to be cooked after their food. So meat, eggs, rice, and veggies were cooked frist.
If you have never been to one, like me at 18, you wouldn't know that they usually try to fill the whole table, so there were about 7 people, my group of 4 and their group of 3.
The other family wasn't happy with the arrangement and was shit talking us the whole time.
The waiter actually brought out the manager who asked the family if they had any issues with their sitting arrangements but they denied it. They didn't ask us if we wanted to move unless they did when my mother went to the bathroom.
The manager stuck around and watched over the dinner at a different table because they we're still noticeably shit talking. This went on for the whole dinner maybe around 40 mins, I honestly don't remember.
Slowly it made my mother upset so she started taking it out on me. Then she kept threatening to have the staff do the lights, sing and dance, brithday thing if I didn't "behave" knowing I really didn't want it. I have bad social anxiety.
I think she also wanted to do it to harass the other family by making a show.
When the bill came the other family demanded we comp them for their lack of enjoyment. Their bill was almost $200 as they all got the more expensive dishes.
Then my mother played the "how dare you bully my gay child(me) on her 18 birthday" card. She doesn't believe in bisexuals, trans, pans, and so on so it's always "gay".
At this point the manager got involved, things escalated and we got kicked out.
In the end I had to pay my mother back for the whole dinner for the bad experience. We didn't pay the other family's bill.
After I was done with the story my boyfriend started defending the other family saying it was understandable that they were upset. We ruined their experience. His words were that my mother was ridiculously stupid for going there with a fish and shellfish allergy.
It's a weird feeling because I honestly can't recall anytime in my childhood where I felt the need to actually stick up for my mother.
I don't think she was in the right and she don't handle it as an adult but I don't think she actually started this.
So now I can't get over my disappointed and disapproval of my boyfriend's response. It sucks that that's all he took from it but it also angers me to hear him call my mother stupid over her food allergy.
Just to put it out there it was recommended in the menu for someone with these allergy to come enjoy their non-seafood items.
I think this is a red flag but I wanted opinions and advice.
Tldr; For my 18th I went to teppanyaki and had a bad experience. The other guests weren't happy about my mother's seafood allergy and talked shit the whole dinner then wanted us to pay for their food. My boyfriend of 1 year told me my mother was stupid for going and sided with the other guests.
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2021.10.25 20:28 Studio_Sensitive 18M Hoping to make some new friends :)

My name is Matthew and I’m in university this year. I’m majoring in international relations because I love learning about geopolitics, other cultures, history, and how nations interact with each other! College has definitely been an adjustment from high school. I’ve been a lot more… busy nowadays to say the least :p. Despite that, I’d like to meet people and make some new friends! I haven’t made a deep connection in college yet, so in some ways I’m longing for it.
Here’s some of my interests
-Watching YouTube (mainly political commentary channels like Destiny, Vaush, etc)
-Playing PC video games (admittedly I haven’t done much recently tho lol. I’ve liked Minecraft, CS:GO, VALORANT, Destiny 2 especially)
-Watching anime (shinesekai yori, attack on titan, promised neverland, I want to eat your pancreas, etc)
-Having deep conversations (about feelings, how we view life, moral problems, etc)
If you read this far, but generally have trouble opening up conversation still that’s okay (well also I hope this post isn’t too boring oof)!! I’ll post two questions below that you can choose between and open up conversation with. I won’t be weird about it :). Initial small talk can be hard.

  1. What’s especially been on your mind recently?
  2. What’s a topic you can talk about for hours?
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2021.10.25 20:28 FranciscoFJM Jonny L - This Time

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2021.10.25 20:28 Cryptic_E How often do Research/Builder Potions come by?

I started playing this game again this past month and I’m at TH7 with 5/5 builder potions and 3/5 research potions. I was wanting to use them to speed up my progress but not sure how often they are given out in game as rewards, gold pass, etc. Should I hold on to them for later TH levels or would it be fine to use one or two of each to speed up progress?
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2021.10.25 20:28 8279382383 Holding SOL cold storage?

got my ledger setup and Solfare and learning about staking has made me not even want to bother.
I just want to confirm holding on Solfare is a safe option?
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2021.10.25 20:27 TheMexitalian AMD Mid Build - Feedback?

This will be my second build for me. First was an AMD FX-8350 build that lasted my about 10 years, so I am excited to do it again and have y'all to give me feedback this time around.
My Needs: Linux and Windows, programming applications, high fps gaming, video editing, word processing, good multi-tasker
I heard good things about this generation of AMD Processors (Ryzen) so I thought I should stick with an AMD build this time around, too. I know I do not have integrated graphics and I need a graphics card. I would like to get a GeForce 3080 when I can get one closer to MSRP to finish off the build.
My immediate concerns are maybe I need a slightly higher benchmark on my processor? I plan to expand my RAM and Storage space after I get the computer running, so I acknowledge those.

Any comments, concerns? Thanks for either!

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**Motherboard** | [ASRock B550M Pro4 Micro ATX AM4 Motherboard]( | $109.99 @ Amazon
**Memory** | [G.Skill Ripjaws V 16 GB (2 x 8 GB) DDR4-4000 CL18 Memory]( | $89.99 @ Amazon
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2021.10.25 20:27 roseofultramarine Should I pre bake my pie crust for chicken pot pie?

Hi all! I am making chicken pot pie for dinner tomorrow and I’m making an all butter pie crust for it. I just want to know if I should pre bake the bottom pie crust before adding the filling or if I should make sure it’s frozen before hand? I haven’t made this in a while and I used store bought crust before, and I can’t remember how it turned out. Thanks for any tips or suggestions!
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